• Gay BlogAds


  • Gay News Watch


  • Chris Tweets



  • « Gay papers weigh in on ENDA | Main | One nonscientific survey… »

    October 09, 2007

    Transg-ENDA and passing privilege

    Posted by: Chris

    Much of the debate over whether to move forward with compromise workplace protection based on sexual orientation and not gender identity has seemed to pit the GLBs versus the Ts.

    Either transgender Americans are protected by including “gender identity” as a protected category in the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, or some 150 GLBT groups have vowed to oppose employment protection based solely on “sexual orientation.”

    In reality, that Sophie’s Choice hasn’t really set the GLBs against the Ts. It has instead split the GLBs wide open. And there is an undercurrent to the debate that hasn’t been dealt with out in the open; a long-simmering tension between “straight-acting” gay men and lesbians and those GLBs who are gender non-conforming.

    Just the term “straight-acting” raises the hackles of many gays, and for understandable reason. Call it what you will, but there has always been an uneasy coexistence among masculine and effeminate gay men; and to a lesser extent, between “lipstick lesbians” and their “butch” counterparts.

    Spend five minutes in a gay bar, online chatroom, or even perusing personal ads, and the cleavage couldn’t be clearer.

    Transgender folks have a better name for it; they call it “passing privilege.” Some gay men and lesbians can “pass” as heterosexual, choosing when and with whom to come out.  Many of these “straight-acting” gays, and I count myself in their number although I completely reject the term, are often enthusiastically embraced by heterosexuals because we seem “normal” except for being gay.

    For many femme gay guys and more masculine lesbians, there is less choice about whether people know because “passing” isn’t really an option, or requires living in another type of closet that they refuse to accept. Acceptance can be a much tougher road because they must deal not only with homosexuality as an issue, but the discomfort many have with gender non-conformity, or with non-conformity in general.

    That’s why it’s called passing “privilege.” And to hear those who oppose a gay-only ENDA compromise, a central purpose of the legislation even before “gender identity” was added has always been to protect gender non-conformity in the workplace, rather than simply prevent sexual orientation from being a basis for firings or demotions.

    They point out that to your average bigot, a male coworker can be a “faggot” based entirely on mannerism, without any intel about his actual sexual orientation. The same applies to butch women, of course.

    You can hear that refrain in the more passionate commentary from those who object to removing transgender protection from ENDA. We are all gender non-conformists, they say, because men are supposed to be attracted to women, and vice versa. If you defy those roles, then you also defy the expectation of your gender.

    Lambda Legal has even converted that emotional connection into a legal one, arguing that without “gender identity” in ENDA, employers will have a huge loophole to claim a worker was fired or demoted because he was effeminate or she was masculine – not because he or she is gay.

    The good news about the “gay-only” ENDA compromise, if you’re willing to hear it, is that there is no such loophole. Perhaps those of us with “passing privilege” can see that more clearly because we aren’t bound up in some emotional way with trans folk as fellow gender transgressors. (This is a sentiment, by the way, shared by most transsexuals and cross-dressers, many of whom adamantly identify as heterosexual and are actually offended by the suggestion that they are part of some “LGBT community.”)

    Like many other GLBs, I reject completely the idea that being gay makes me a gender non-conformist. For us, the hardest part about accepting our sexual orientation can be shedding the misconception that being gay makes us less of a man or a woman.

    Many transsexuals and cross-dressers, on the other hand, have been diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder, a mental illness that involves a complete disconnect between their biological and intellectual genders. Other trans folk reject the whole notion of gender and express themselves in a way that defies the male-female dichotomy.

    That is certainly their right, but having integrated my sexual orientation into my personality, I don’t feel one bit of inconsistency between being gay and being a man. I know many lesbians who feel the same way about their gender. For us, the entire notion of sexual orientation revolves around maintaining the male-female distinction. How else can I have same-sex attraction, unless I am a man attracted to other men?

    I can already hear the accusations to the contrary, but none of this means those of us with “passing privilege” don’t oppose transphobia. I strongly favor employment protection for the Ts, just not if it means waiting even more years to protect GLB workers.

    But maybe because I don’t self-identify as a gender transgressor, I can see the very clear legal and practical difference between sexual orientation and gender identity.

    I can see clearly, for example, that gender non-conforming workers are already protected by Title VII, which the Supreme Court ruled way back in 1989 prohibits employers from relying on gender stereotypes. The real “loophole” since then has been for GLB workers, not the Ts, since courts have uniformly refused to apply that Supreme Court precedent when the gender non-conforming employee is gay.

    Barney’s compromise “gay-only” ENDA, imperfect as it is, would close that loophole once and for all, protecting workers based on their “actual or perceived” sexual orientation. The effeminate male demeaned in the factory as a “faggot” could sue, even if his bigoted boss has no idea whether he’s actually gay.

    A “gay-only” ENDA should not divide the GLBs, at least not on the question of whether it would protect all of us, “passing privilege” or otherwise. That’s why Lambda Legal lobbied for a gay-only ENDA for more than a decade, and that’s why there’s not a single reported case of a GLB worker losing a discrimination suit under a state or local “gay-only” discrimination law because he or she was gender non-conforming.

    Gay Americans have fought for basic federal civil rights protections for more than 30 years, and have lobbied for a “gay-only” ENDA for more than a decade. The unfortunate political reality is that only a “gay-only” ENDA has a chance of passing right now, and it is this “trans or bust” strategy adopted by the gender non-conforming GLBs who run our civil rights groups that is responsible for reopening old, old wounds.

    Rallying around a Barney’s ENDA compromise offers an opportunity to reunite us and pass historic legislation.

    |

    TrackBack

    TrackBack URL for this entry:
    http://www.typepad.com/services/trackback/6a00d834527dd469e200e54f0876b18834

    Comments

    1. Amicus on Oct 9, 2007 7:28:46 PM:

      Somebody holds a gun to your head and says, "Choose!" and you DON'T want to bill that as the source of the problem but as a source of unity and strength?

      The answer to "Sophie's choice" is not to choose, not to participate in the immorality of her overlords.

      The same is true in this case.

    1. Amicus on Oct 9, 2007 8:37:02 PM:

      Not a mental disorder.

      Notes from GIRES and their paper to MPs that ultimately proved persuasive:

      "In conclusion, although processes of sex differentiation in the brain are not fully understood, the evidence suggests that transsexualism is NOT a mental illness, but rather a neuro-developmental condition which, as such, cannot be overcome by contrary socialization, nor by psychological or psychiatric treatments alone. Treatment, which is regarded as highly successful, usually includes an integrated program of hormones and corrective surgery to achieve realignment of the phenotype with the gender identity, accompanied by such psychological support as the individual may need to assist in adaptation to the appropriate gender role."

      http://www.gires.org.uk/
      Text_Assets/
      Parliament_forum.pdf

    1. UAFA NOW on Oct 10, 2007 12:06:52 AM:

      It is about time someone addresses discrimination against "straight acting" gays by femme gays. Although it may sound funny, it is not funny at all. I came out when I was 21. I was not accepted by the gay community because I didn't fit their idea of gay. I almost went back into the "closet" but I didn't, I stuck to my guns. I am gay. I makes me sick when gender non-conformists judge me because I don't meet their idea of gay or gender non-conformist. They are practicing gender stereotypes themselves.

    1. Tim on Oct 10, 2007 3:14:45 PM:

      great article, articulates things better than I could.


      Amicus: As for "sophies choice" what kind of crap is that? I mean seriously that's a recipe for total disconnect. This isn't about guns to the head it's about job safety and security. Transgendered have been protected this whole time under medical discrimination even here in Oklahoma. but I have no such protection.

    1. J on Oct 10, 2007 10:52:53 PM:

      "Transgendered have been protected this whole time under medical discrimination even here in Oklahoma. but I have no such protection."

      What are you talking about? There are no federal protections for transgendered people on medical grounds, and I don't believe that there are any states that have such protection either. Gender Identity Disorder was pointedly excluded from the ADA.

      There are more states that protect lesbian and gay people from employment discrimination than transgendered people (and states that have bills that only protect people for sexual orientation have done quite poorly at adding protection for gender identity or gender expression later on).

      The state where I live does not have protections for sexual orientation or gender identity (which is particularly unfortunate for me, since I'm lesbian and transgendered). I've been fired for being transgendered, and I know several other people that have been fired or have experienced severe employment discrimination for being transgendered.

      Title VII doesn't help trans people much, no matter how often some people claim otherwise. LGBT lawyers won't even file a lawsuit over someone transgendered being fired in my state, because there are no helpful precedents in this federal court district, and there is too high a risk of an unfavorable result. (I've spoken with several LGBT lawyers that specialize in employment issues about this topic, because of my own personal experience.)

      So in my state, trans people are completely unprotected if they are fired for gender identity or gender expression - and even if the tran-excluded ENDA bill is passed, I'll still also be vulnerable to being fired for being lesbian (because they can actually claim "oh no, we fired her because she's transgendered" as a legal defense under Frank's proposed bill).

    1. Just Meeeee on Oct 16, 2007 2:56:12 PM:

      Many of these “straight-acting” gays, and I count myself in their number although I completely reject the term, are often enthusiastically embraced by heterosexuals because we seem “normal” except for being gay."

      Chris, Chris, Chris, your stereotypes are showing. We all know that you're just a tad defensive about your stance against including transgenders in nondiscrimination bills, but step back a minute and look at yourself and what you are saying. These comments make the perfect case for exactly why transgenders need protection too.

      And as for your passing privelege, please honey, I've seen you walk!

    1. Citizen Crain on Oct 16, 2007 6:06:01 PM:

      Just Meee: Is there something endemic to gender dysphoria that causes transgender activists to revert to a sixth-grade level? Or am I just especially blessed by immature reactions from you and dozens of others since I took on this ENDA issue years ago?

      There is no question, as I said in my post, that "straight-acting gays" often are uncomfortable with gay and trans folk who don't fit gender stereotypes. But you only prove that the converse is just as true: Transgender and more flamboyant gay folk are often threatened by those of us who are gay but remain happily within the normal range of gender expression.

      Please don't ask us to support your right to express yourself as you are, much less at the expense of our own rights, if you're not prepared to grow up and accept us as we are.

    1. Just Meeeee on Oct 17, 2007 1:46:18 PM:

      Oh, Chris, honey, calm down! You're becoming a big ole conclusion jumper and a name caller and it's not doing your position any good, sweetie. You see, I am not trans, as you assume--surely your grandmother told you what happens when you assume? And your desperation to identify as "straight-acting" is sort of sad, too. How about sticking to the facts, some logic, allowing for some difference of opinion, and dropping the GWB-ish if-you're-not-with-me-you-must-be-a-Commie type of rhetoric. Sheesh!

    The comments to this entry are closed.

    © Citizen Crain - All Rights Reserved | Design by E.Webscapes Design Studio | Powered by: TypePad